Enough!

Sometimes it sucks when after a long time we realise that after calling these people ''friends'' for so long, we realise that they we just taking all our energy. They are not worth the title that we give them. It is sad that only after so much time we realise this. These type of people just take and take and do not give. The friendship is not mutually beneficial and then you decide to terminate the friendship. This has happened to me a lot over the years and I guess that it has made me experienced in choosing my friends wisely. I have been hurt and burned by many times by people that I thought were my friends and this is why I choose my friends so carefully. People always try to take advantage of you because they think that you are passive or submissive but then get shocked when you move away from them or start playing the game the way that they are playing. People always expect people to bow down to them or to be yes-men. And then when you have finally had enough and say something, they get shocked that you are capable of such. But what did they expect? As time goes by, people get fed up and even those that you thought are 'sweet' or 'friendly' get angry and then you say 'I cannot believe it', ' I did not think that they were like that'. But what did they expect? People should really look at the way that they treat others because how you treat others is a direct reflection of your self esteem and how you were raised. Our parents did not raise us to belittle or put down others and I am sure that they would be shocked at how some of us act.
 And we should also  think, if we had children would we want them to behave in this manner? I am sure that most of us would not. It is time for us to change and become better people.